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dinsdag 11 februari 2014

inside outside

bron: instagram.com/wendiertje89
Enkele jaren geleden eindigden andere vrijwilligers en ik in een sloppenwijk op een strand in Ghana. Het was onze eerste dag in Afrika. We hadden een strand verwacht, maar tot onze ontzetting vonden we helemaal iets anders. Ik herinner me nog hoe ik besefte dat ik zo niet klaar was om armoede te zien. Ik was juist 20 jaar oud. Een man van deze wijk won ons vertrouwen en leidde ons rond. Zijn naam was Emmanuel. Meer tegen het einde van de heel interessante en vooral confronterende wandeling toonde hij zijn huis. Ik was zo verbaasd dat er niets te zien was. Alleen een bed. Het stond zelfs tegen de muur. Emmanuel vertelde ons dat zij niet zoals Westerse mensen hun huizen van binnen decoreren met alle spullen die ze kunnen komen, omdat ze binnen leven, geïsoleerd van elkaar, maar dat Afrikanen buiten leven, in een gemeenschap. De ijskast stond buiten, en werd door iedereen in die straat gedeeld. Daarin werden de cola's bewaard. 

Deze herinnering kwam onmiddellijk in mijn hoofd wanneer ik tijdens de Leadership Summer School in Bulgarije hoorde over UseTogether. Mensen posten op deze website welke spullen ze kunnen uitlenen, en kunnen ook spullen lenen bij andere mensen, of elkaar dingen aanleren, of gewoon spullen omruilen. In plaats van te consumeren en al die spullen bij te houden die toch alleen maar in de weg staan van je huis kan je iemand anders er blij mee maken. Het woord "Together" benadrukt nog eens het sociale aspect. Misschien moeten we eens naar onze zuiderburen kijken -of naar enkele verhalen in Afrika, want het zijn niet allemaal delende community-mensen-, en minder consumeren, en gewoon naar buiten gaan en leuke momenten en spullen met elkaar delen.    


(http://www.usetogether.com). 


Het is gloednieuw, en nog niet zo bekend in België en Nederland, maar ik geloof dat deze trend wel eens in de voetsporen van Couchsurfing kan volgen. Deze start-up is geboren in Roemenië, waar mensen ook niet zoveel geld hebben als bij ons. Toch kijk ik naar alle rommel in mijn huis, en vraag me af wat ik nodig heb. Mijn nicht wil een vintage/koffiebar/shop/fotografiezaak opstarten in Lier, en zelf ben ik van plan heel wat spullen weg te geven... omdat ik het niet nodig heb... maar haar wel dichter bij een droom brengt. 

In de wereld van consumptie telt geld, maar in de wereld van geluk telt een glimlach die je op het gezicht van anderen en jezelf tovert. 

Hoeveel spullen geef jij soms weg, ruil je om... zonder dat er consumptie (tijdens of later) aan te pas komt? Laat het me weten in een reactie!

zondag 10 november 2013

The Religion of Traveling, pt 3: Beauty & the Dead Sea Beast


For 3 full days and 4 nights, my friend and I were couchsurfing in Ein Gedi Kibbutz, which is one botanical garden. The atmosphere is totally different than in busy Jerusalem. While the latter is more a heavy Bach symfony, this place is more a Manu Chao song.
People share, know each other (in this small community), walk sometimes barefoot, all look free men, and not bound by religion. It is like living in the free paradise described in the famous book « the beach ». There are giant baobabs everywhere, and there is also some plant. Our host, a very easy-going guy, known by everyone, took us on the first evening already to a small look out point which is built out of respect for a dead friend, and under the stars he let us make music by drumming on some wind catchers. He also taught my friend about aloevera, which is everywhere. « It is almost like garbage in the botanical garden, » our host told her. My friend already took almost a whole plant, and put it in the fridge, because the sap of the plant can cure mosquito bites (which started to occur, when we went more southwards).




One day we visited the Dead Sea. Floating in the lowest place on Earth, is apparently very healthy. We got for free in the spa. No way how we did it. Or maybe a bit. We just ended up on the beach, in fact, not in the real spa, were floating there, and covered ourselves in mud. Everything for eternal youth, I guess?



The day after our host took us to Masada Fort. Very early in the morning my friend and I hiked up via Snake Path (name is because of the shape, not because it is full of snakes ; otherwise I would never take it), when the sun came up, and for many hours we enjoyed the history and archeology. While my friend dived in all the information, I dreamt how I would make an amazing romantic historical epos about the siege by the Romans, which ended when all the Jewish rebels killed themselves and their families, because they rather wanted to be free than slaves. I already decided to take a lot of epic helicopter shots, because the landscape is stunning : The salt, tectonics and the dry climate shaped some amazing features in the rock. Of course I also would work a lot with shadows, being lines of prison, to emphase the Jewish rebells were stuck. Yes, I can see this movie. I only need a good story, about love (maybe forbidden), and oh yes... money.

In the evenings and some mornings we share really interesting conversations with our host. He talks about his experience with the real religious people in Israel. We didn't know the religious people don't pay any taxes, and only pray. They got a lot of money from the government. In Antwerp, we've got also religious Jewish people, and they are quite isolated from the rest of our population. To be honest, I don't know anybody who has friends from that small island in my city. The religious people also don't go to the army, and our host claimed they were maybe the biggest enemy of the state, because they have their own court and rules. Sometimes, I wonder, what is Israel ? Also, in Jerusalem, we, or in fact my friend who read a lot about the coloniation of Israeli's in Palestine territory, had some discussions with our host, and although my friend likes to find strong arguments to make an opinion, I am still confused what to call Israeli, or what not. Jerusalem is totally different than Ein Gedi. In Jerusalem I couldn't relax, in Ein Gedi immediately, to give an example. In Jerusalem you've to dress like a penguin, here in Ein Gedi you can wear just your bikini... still... it is the same state, nation ? It is very interesting to hear stories, opinions... but at the same time so confusing.

On our third day, we went to the nature reserve. We hiked up via water fall to a look-out where we could admire the Dead Sea. My friend and I split up ; she wanted to refresh herself, and wanted to hike faster, while I wanted to take many pictures and footage. In the end, I hitchhiked with a guy, with his jeep full of yellow spots, with his hyperkinetic dog, the Dead Sea Beast I call it, who tried to push me out of the car. Or it seems. The dog was jumping to everything and everyone. When my friend and I were waiting for sunrise above the Dead Sea, and our bus to Eilat in the south, we met him back ; two times. He invited us to spend time on a local beach, but we had to move on. Our time in the Middle East is limited. The dog almost attacked my friend. He is quite a figure. Like our host. Ein Gedi is full of interesting relaxed people, all a bit quirky, but I love it.




I think these 3 days were full of nature, hiking, relaxing and beauty products. My friend and I bought enough mud to become real princesses with shining hair, but maybe it is not a good idea, because in the next days we go to a more « conservative » country. I don't know Jordan is very strict, and we'll have 'female traveler's problems ', but still... we don't know anything about the country, apart from the fact you can find Petra, one of the new World Wonders, there, and the idea it's the heart of the Middle East (neighbours are Syria, Iraq, Saoud Arabia...). We've got an Couchsurfing invitation from someone from Petra. I wonder which song will remind me to these country. 

donderdag 22 augustus 2013

Just a thought...


I ended once -by accident- in a slum in Accra, Ghana, 
and people were so friendly to show me and other volunteers around. 
They showed me their house.
I was so surprised to see that there was nothing inside. Only a bed. 
No table, or books, or decoration, no paint, no chairs, nothing...
I thought they were poor...
... and I wondered why they don't give these depressive walls some color, to bring sunshine in their life. So... I remarked that "there is not so much to see here..;"
They told us they are not like Westerns decorating their houses with as much as stuff they can buy, because Western people live inside, isolated from each other, 
but these people live outside, in a community. 
They do not need to decorate the inside. Whole their life happens outside.
Their fridge was outside, and was shared by all of the people in that "street" there, 
to keep the soft drinks cold.


Jamestown, Accra, Ghana 2009.
After reading about it, I proposed other volunteers to go there.
I expected to arrive on a idyllic beach, but it was a fisher's town/slum.